International Christian Church, Port Vila • Sunday, 17 May 2026
Introduction
Imagine you are standing at a crossroads in your village.
- One path leads toward further studies in Port Vila or overseas.
- Another path leads toward marriage and starting a family.
- Another path leads toward a job or business opportunity.
You want to do what is right. You want to please God. But the question keeps ringing in your heart: “Lord, what is Your will for me in this decision?”
This is not just a question for young people.
Whether you are choosing a school, a spouse, a job, or even whether to stay in your village or move to town — every one of us faces important decisions.
And here is the good news: God does have a will for your life.
He is not hiding it from you. He wants you to know it.
Last week in Session 1, we learned the important difference between:
- God’s General Will — His will for our character (what kind of person we should be)
- God’s Particular Will — His specific guidance for our choices (where to go, whom to marry, what work to do)
We also learned the foundational truth:
“If your character is correct, your choices will usually be correct.”
Today in Session 2, we are going to move from theory to practice.
We are going to look at how we can discover God’s will for the big decisions of life.
Please open your Bible with me to Ephesians 5:8–17.
Ephesians 5:8–17 (ESV) — for at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of light is found in all that is good and right and true), and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord. Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret. But when anything is exposed by the light, it becomes visible, for anything that becomes visible is light. Therefore it says, “Awake, O sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, 16making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
Review from Session 1
- God’s General Will = Character (for all people, all times)
- God’s Particular Will = Specific choices
- Core Definition: The will of God is that divinely revealed quality of life (attitudes, aspirations, and actions) that the believer produces daily with the Holy Spirit.
- Fundamental Thesis: If your character is correct, your choices will be correct.
WE DO HAVE TO MAKE CHOICES. For example, you have to decide whether you will continue your studies in school. If so, where? You have to decide whether or not to get married. If so, who will you marry? The person you would like to marry may or may not share your opinion! When should you get married? You can’t really answer this question until you have found out whom you are to marry. What will be your profession?
Once we have developed character and obey the word, we can talk about places, people, and professions.
FOUR CATEGORIES:
A. W. Tozer has listed four areas;
Those to which God has said an emphatic “NO”. Most of the 10 commandments contain the word “not”. “You shall not…” No murder, no adultery, no stealing, no false testimony, no coveting. Let’s get closer to home. Is it the will of God for a believer to marry an unbeliever? Absolutely not! God has already clearly revealed his will concerning this question:
2 Corinthians 6:14–15 (ESV) — Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?
It is not spiritual to pray about this. Those who pray about choices where God has already said, “No”, only show their resistance and disobedience to the revealed will of God.
The second category is that of the emphatic “YES”. Pray, share your faith, study the Word, honor your parents, love your enemies, rejoice always, be thankful, be kind to one another, forgive one another, make disciples, be filled with the Spirit, etc.
There is the area of sanctified preferences. In many areas, God gives us the freedom to express our preferences or our taste. In the realm of modesty, God allows us to choose our clothing. We can decide what we want to eat. There are Christians who actually ask God what they should wear. They need to be less self-centered in their praying. Don’t waste your time praying about the color of shirt you’re going to wear. Pray for the lost. Pray for the church. But don’t pray about things that don’t matter.
Finally, there is the area where we need more information from the Lord. If we are obedient to his Word and if we have a character that is pleasing to God, we can talk about places where we should go, people that we should be associated with or marry and the profession that we will choose.
How do we know the will of God in these areas? We will consider the steps later, but right now we are laying the foundation.
John Stott said,
“God’s promises of guidance are not given to save us the bother of thinking. Some Christians imagine that it is super-spiritual to receive directions from God by irrational impulses. It is not super-spiritual; it is not even spiritual; it is carnal. Worse, it is animal. It is asking God to treat us like an irrational beast, like a horse waiting for a tug at bit and bridal, a crack of the whip, or a kick with the spurs. But we are not horses and mules without understanding.”
This is taken from Psalm 32:8–9
Psalm 32:8–9 (ESV) — I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you. Be not like a horse or a mule, without understanding, which must be curbed with bit and bridle, or it will not stay near you.
Someone said that the reason God put a skull around your brain to protect it, is so that you would use it.
God’s will is linked with what we are. Our character determines our choices and our choices determine our character.
There are five biblical principles, based on the thesis, which will enable us to know with “reasonable certainty”.
What do I mean by “reasonable certainty?” There was a young married couple that saved enough money to buy a used car. Finally, the wife gave a word of wisdom: “Maybe a car without doors is the will of God for us.”
The will of God cannot always be judged by the results. “Reasonable certainty” means that whether or not something turns out the way we expected, it’s the will of God for us.
In Judges 20, God commanded the Israelites three times to go up against the Benjamites. In the first battle, they lost 22,000 men. In the second battle they lost 18,000 men. In the third battle, they lost 30 men but won the battle.
Whether or not something turns out the way we expected, it’s the will of God for us.
In spite of the apparent failures, God was leading his people.
Three words of caution:
- This is not the only way to discover the will of God for our choices.
- The steps may seem very simplistic (in light of complex decisions) but consider the thought processes.
- We must take the steps in order. God does have a will, therefore, we may expect him to show us his will.
There are three requirements. We must be:
We need to ask ourselves three questions:
Am I saved? If we are not saved, the will of God for us is that we be saved.
Am I submitted? Are we neutral? If not, we will interpret everything, every circumstance, in the direction we want.
Proverbs 3:5 (ESV) — Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
Can we say, “Lord I want your will”, even if your child is lying on the death bed? “Thy will be done.”
Am I spiritual? Can we approach this subject of the will of God with maturity to discern what God is saying?
The Five Steps
1. PRINCIPLES OF SCRIPTURE
First we must evaluate every decision by the Word of God. This is foundational. God’s Word is practical. It is the Word of God that makes us wise! It relates to all areas of life. The wise man built his house on the Rock: hearing and doing God’s Word.
For example: you are considering a move. What is involved? Finances, job, children’s education. What does the Bible say about these areas? Your mind and heart must be saturated with God’s Word. Sensitivity to God’s direction begins with the Scriptures.
Romans 12:1–2 (ESV) — I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
This is a strong word which tells us that we must present ourselves to God as living sacrifices. Someone said that the problem with living sacrifices is that too often they crawl off the altar!
We are to be living sacrifices because we are to be alive to God. Our worship and service to God is to live 24 hours a day as living sacrifices.
Paul also said that we are not to be conformed to this present world. But we are already conformed to this world. “We are the world!”
Paul said that this conformity to the world must stop. But how? How can I stop being what I am? I can stop being what I am by becoming something that I am not. I can be transformed. I need a transformation of my mind, my perspective, my personal culture and of my values. The term is Greek is metamorphosis, that changing of a caterpillar into a butterfly. We need a metamorphosis, a transformation.
This transformation takes place not in a cocoon, but in the Word of God. It takes place by the renewing of our minds. Our manner of thinking must be radically changed. Peter said that our non-Christian friends will find it strange that we no longer do the same things we used to do with them.
1 Peter 4:1–4 (ESV) — 1 Since therefore Christ suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves with the same way of thinking, for whoever has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, so as to live for the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for human passions but for the will of God. For the time that is past suffices for doing what the Gentiles want to do, living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, and lawless idolatry. With respect to this they are surprised when you do not join them in the same flood of debauchery, and they malign you;
It is because we have been transformed by the renewing of our minds.
The change in behavior follows the change of our minds and this change of our minds is called repentance. Just like meta-morphosis means a transformation, the Greek word for repentance, meta-noia, means a change of our minds. The change in our minds produces a change in the way we live. We are transformed by the renewing of our minds.
So Christianity is not a list of rules that you must observe; it is a transformation. But how does this transformation take place? It takes place by the renewing of our minds. And how are our minds renewed? They are renewed by thinking the thoughts of God after him!
Isaiah 55:7–11 (ESV) — let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts; let him return to the Lord, that he may have compassion on him, and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon. For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. “For as the rain and the snow come down from heaven and do not return there but water the earth, making it bring forth and sprout, giving seed to the sower and bread to the eater, so shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and shall succeed in the thing for which I sent it.
God says that we must abandon our way of thinking and adopt his manner of thinking. How can we adopt his manner of thinking? By listening to the Word that comes from His mouth and by thinking the thoughts of God after him.
David said in Psalm 1:
Psalm 1:1–2 (ESV) — Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night.
When we meditate on the Word of God, our minds are renewed. That’s why we need to meditate and memorize the Word of God: because his Word transforms the structure of our thinking. “That’s brainwashing!” you say. Certainly! Our minds need to be washed in the best sense. Our minds need to be restructured.
Notice David’s testimony concerning the effect of meditation upon his mind:
Psalm 119:97–104 (ESV) — Oh how I love your law! It is my meditation all the day. Your commandment makes me wiser than my enemies, for it is ever with me. 99 I have more understanding than all my teachers, for your testimonies are my meditation. I understand more than the aged, for I keep your precepts. I hold back my feet from every evil way, in order to keep your word. I do not turn aside from your rules, for you have taught me. How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! Through your precepts I get understanding; therefore I hate every false way.
The Word of God makes us wiser than our enemies. It gives us more understanding than our teachers. It gives us more understanding than the wise elders. By the reading, the memorization and meditation of the Word of God, our minds are renewed so that we can discern the Word of God.
Cosigning a loan?
Consider another example. A friend wants to buy a new truck but the bank won’t loan him the money. He knows that you have some money saved in the bank and asks you to cosign with him at the bank so that the bank will loan him the money and he can buy his truck. What should you do? Should you help your friend who needs your help? How do you know God’s will?
You apply the Word of God that you have studied and meditated every day and you will know God’s will.
Proverbs 11:15 (ESV) — Whoever puts up security for a stranger will surely suffer harm, but he who hates striking hands in pledge is secure.
Proverbs 17:18 (ESV) — One who lacks sense gives a pledge and puts up security in the presence of his neighbor.
Proverbs 22:26–27 (ESV) — Be not one of those who give pledges, who put up security for debts. If you have nothing with which to pay, why should your bed be taken from under you?
What if you are already committed? The Bible speaks to this issue as well:
Proverbs 6:1–5 (ESV) — My son, if you have put up security for your neighbor, have given your pledge for a stranger, if you are snared in the words of your mouth, caught in the words of your mouth, then do this, my son, and save yourself, for you have come into the hand of your neighbor: go, hasten, and plead urgently with your neighbor. Give your eyes no sleep and your eyelids no slumber; save yourself like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, like a bird from the hand of the fowler.
My friends, we are not bankers. The bank has well studied the financial situation of your friend. If the bank does not want to commit itself to him, do you really have more money and more financial savvy than the bank? Who is going to provide for your family while your friend drives around in the new truck that you have bought him?
What can you do for your friend who is in need? You can loan him money without interest and without hoping that he will repay you! Jesus said this:
Luke 6:35 (ESV) — But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.
Or you can give him the money if you have an abundance:
Proverbs 3:27–28 (ESV) — Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it. Do not say to your neighbor, “Go, and come again, tomorrow I will give it”—when you have it with you.
If we are to discern God’s will, we have to think the thoughts of God. That’s the reason for the daily study of God’s Word. It is not to impress God or to influence him. It is to be influenced and transformed by his Word. That’s how we understand the principles of life laid down in the Scriptures. A sensitivity to God’s direction begins with the Scriptures.
2. THE PRAYERS OF THE SAINTS (WE WHO ARE ALIVE!)
James 1:5–8 (ESV) — If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.
His word must abide in us when we pray. We must first know the Scriptures to know how to pray intelligently.
John 15:7 (ESV) — If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish…
We need the prayers of others to help us find God’s direction.
Acts 13:2–3 (ESV) — While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.” Then after fasting and praying they laid their hands on them and sent them off.
Paul and Barnabas didn’t just take off as missionaries; the Lord directed them through the local church.
God’s will is dynamic so we need his direction. In 2 Samuel 5, the Philistines came spread out in the Valley of Rephaim to battle newly anointed King David. David inquired of the LORD who told him to go up against them and he would certainly give the Philistines into his hand. David defeated them. But the Philistines came up again in the same place. The same enemy, the same place. But this time the LORD said, “You shall not go up; go around to their rear and attack.”
2 Samuel 5:17–23 (ESV) — When the Philistines heard that David had been anointed king over Israel, all the Philistines went up to search for David. But David heard of it and went down to the stronghold. Now the Philistines had come and spread out in the Valley of Rephaim. And David inquired of the Lord, “Shall I go up against the Philistines? Will you give them into my hand?” And the Lord said to David, “Go up, for I will certainly give the Philistines into your hand.” And David came to Baal-perazim, and David defeated them there. And he said, “The Lord has broken through my enemies before me like a breaking flood.” Therefore the name of that place is called Baal-perazim. And the Philistines left their idols there, and David and his men carried them away. And the Philistines came up yet again and spread out in the Valley of Rephaim. And when David inquired of the Lord, he said, “You shall not go up; go around to their rear, and come against them opposite the balsam trees.
3. THE PROVIDENCE OF SITUATIONS
Our sensitivity to the will of God is sharpened through prayer. Sensitivity is essential. God’s will is not static. Up to now we’ve dealt with spiritual exercises that affect our judgment. But we must also understand the situation. God’s will is not always the same, even in the same circumstances:
Consider Acts 16:6–7.
Acts 16:6–7 (ESV) — And they went through the region of Phrygia and Galatia, having been forbidden by the Holy Spirit to speak the word in Asia. And when they had come up to Mysia, they attempted to go into Bithynia, but the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them.
We can imagine Paul with Timothy and Silas. They tried to preach the Word of God in the province of Asia. They had intended to go to Ephesus, the major city of Asia, but they were “forbidden by the Holy Spirit to speak the word in Asia”. So they went across Phrygia and Galatia and attempted to go into Bithynia, “but the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them”.
This was a cross-country trek of some 1,000 kilometers. If they walked 40 km a day across this difficult terrain, they would have walked for more than three weeks without knowing where God was leading them!
But notice the amazing freedom to pursue different possibilities.
God’s will also means that we have the freedom to pursue what we know he wants us to do.
Paul felt free to plan. He did not wait for a revelation. However God led, when one door of ministry was closed, Paul tried another door of ministry.
I want to assure you that God does lead us and he does speak to us, but he never spares us the necessity of approaching him personally or of thinking about what he has said. The direction of God does not spare us the element of faith in our walk with the Lord. We walk by faith, not by sight.
James 4:13–15 (ESV) — Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit”— yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.”
We should make our plans and say, “If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.”
But in this case with Paul, God wants to do something extraordinary. Paul wanted to go to Ephesus. That would have to wait, but at this strategic point, God had another plan. So God hindered Paul from going into the province of Asia or into Bithynia.
After several weeks of walking, seemingly without any precise direction, nothing but hindrances, they arrive at Troas on the coast of the sea. They are hemmed in. They don’t know where to go.
Acts 16:8–10 (ESV) — So, passing by Mysia, they went down to Troas. And a vision appeared to Paul in the night: a man of Macedonia was standing there, urging him and saying, “Come over to Macedonia and help us.” And when Paul had seen the vision, immediately we sought to go on into Macedonia, concluding that God had called us to preach the gospel to them.
Time after time, we see this approach in the book of Acts. Peter had the vision of the sheet filled with all kinds of animals, but he has to ponder its meaning (Acts 10:17, 19). He is freed from prison by an angelic intervention, but after thinking about it realizes that it was not a vision and decides to go the house of Mary, the mother of John Mark (12:9–12). When Paul and Barnabas learned that the people of Iconium were planning to stone them, they fled to other cities to preach the gospel (14:4–7). No divine revelation. Just common sense.
Sometimes God gives us a strong word, but that usually only happens at major turning points of our lives. The more difficult the way may be, the strong the word that God may give. Let us not be among those who cheapen God’s specific direction.
How did God say NO? Sometimes God closes doors: you apply to go to a school and they don’t accept you. You apply for a job and don’t get it. You ask a girl to marry you and she says no! It happens! What’s our reaction?
Daniel was about 18 years old when his country invaded by Babylon. He was suddenly torn away from his country and his family. Did he say, “God, why?… What does it pay to serve God?” No, he determined to serve the Lord in his new circumstances.
Daniel 1:8–9 (ESV) — But Daniel resolved that he would not defile himself with the king’s food, or with the wine that he drank… And God gave Daniel favor…
Look at Romans 1. Paul had made several plans to go to Rome but had been hindered from going.
Romans 1:9–11 (ESV) — For God is my witness, whom I serve with my spirit in the gospel of his Son, that without ceasing I mention you always in my prayers, asking that somehow by God’s will I may now at last succeed in coming to you. For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to strengthen you—
Romans 1:13 (ESV) — I do not want you to be unaware, brothers, that I have often intended to come to you (but thus far have been prevented), in order that I may reap some harvest among you as well as among the rest of the Gentiles.
Romans 1:15 (ESV) — So I am eager to preach the gospel to you also who are in Rome.
In Romans 15, Paul again speaks of his desire to go to Rome, and why he has been hindered: he’s been busy in the service of the Lord.
Romans 15:22–25 (ESV) — This is the reason why I have so often been hindered from coming to you. 23But now, since I no longer have any room for work in these regions, and since I have longed for many years to come to you, I hope to see you in passing as I go to Spain, and to be helped on my journey there by you, once I have enjoyed your company for a while. At present, however, I am going to Jerusalem bringing aid to the saints.
Romans 15:28 (ESV) — When therefore I have completed this and have delivered to them what has been collected, I will leave for Spain by way of you.
Romans 15:32 (ESV) — so that by God’s will I may come to you with joy and be refreshed in your company.
Nonetheless, he still intends to make the voyage, if it’s the will of God. At the time of this writing, it had not been the will of God. Situations had prevented it. But Paul continued to do and to desire to do something for God.
The Holy Spirit knows what is happening in our lives, the disappointments, the closed doors. All the time, he is interceding through us according to the will of God:
Romans 8:26–27 (ESV) — Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.
In these verses Paul clearly says that we don’t always know the mind of the Lord, but the Spirit who intercedes through us knows the will of God and he prays that it would be accomplished. In this passage through verse 29, we see the intimate relation between pray, the events that transpire in our lives, and the development of character which is God’s primary concern.
Romans 8:28–29 (ESV) — And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.
We come back, then, to God’s primary will for us: being transformed into the image of his Son.
Psalm 143:8 (ESV) — Let me hear in the morning of your steadfast love, for in you I trust. Make me know the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul.
4. PATIENT IN SPIRIT
We must be Patient in Spirit. The farmer works the soil, plants the seed, pulls the weeds, and fertilizes the crop, but he has to be patient and wait for the harvest. The Old Testament prophets had to wait patiently for the coming of the Messiah. We must wait patiently for His return. We must develop the character of patience because God is so patient. 2 Peter 3:9 says,
2 Peter 3:9 (ESV) — The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.
God frequently calls us to do something, but we must wait for it to be accomplished. The prophet Habakkuk struggled with the idea that God would use the ungodly Babylonians to judge the sinful Israelites. “Why do the evil seem to go unpunished?” he asked. God replied that He would see to it that all the wicked would be punished, but the righteous ones must live by faith.
Habakkuk 2:1–3 (ESV) — I will take my stand at my watchpost and station myself on the tower, and look out to see what he will say to me, and what I will answer concerning my complaint. And the Lord answered me: “Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it. For still the vision awaits its appointed time; it hastens to the end—it will not lie. If it seems slow, wait for it; it will surely come; it will not delay.
God’s purpose awaits its appointed time: if it seems slow, wait for it!
Psalm 37:3–7 (ESV) — Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act. He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday. Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way, over the man who carries out evil devices!
God is in no hurry. He is patient and he wants us to develop patience. This is one of the reasons why we often have to wait. Much damage is done in the lives of Christians who are in a hurry and make rash decisions. Moses was born to lead God’s people from Egypt to Canaan. But at the age of 40 he killed an Egyptian because of his impatience. Consequently, he was banished to the desert for 40 years so that he could learn patience, God’s timing, and God’s method. King Saul was not useful to God because he refused to trust God and to wait for God’s time. Sometimes pastors leave too soon because they are not patient enough to wait for the fulfillment of God’s promise.
Be patient in spirit.
5. PEACE IN YOUR SOUL
The fifth step is peace in our souls. We need to feel at peace about the decisions that we make.
Isaiah 26:3 (ESV) — You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.
Philippians 4:6–7 (ESV) — do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
We can say that if we do not have the peace of God, and the assurance that we are doing His will, we must repeat the five steps. Submission to the will of God leads us to the peace of God which passes all understanding.
We see the five biblical steps that will help us to discover the will of God:
- The Principles of Scripture
- The Prayers of the Saints (we who are alive)
- Providence Situations
- Patience in Spirit
- Peace in our Soul
CONCLUSION
So how can we discover God’s particular will for the big decisions of life — where to study, whom to marry, what work to do?
We have seen five biblical principles that help us walk wisely:
- The Principles of Scripture — God’s Word must be the foundation. Renew your mind daily so you can test and approve what is the will of God (Romans 12:2).
- The Prayers of the Saints — Ask God for wisdom. Pray persistently, and ask others to pray with you.
- The Providence of Situations — Pay attention to the doors God opens and closes. When one way is blocked, look for the next.
- Patience in Spirit — Wait for God’s timing. Many mistakes come from impatience. God is rarely in a hurry.
- Peace in our Soul — When the first four are in place, God usually gives a deep, settled peace about the right decision.
Brothers and sisters, God does have a will for your life. He is not trying to hide it from you. But He reveals it most clearly to those who are already walking in His general will — a life that is holy, thankful, and pleasing to Him.
Start today. Make a simple plan:
- Read at least one chapter of the Bible every day.
- Spend time in prayer every morning.
- Ask the Holy Spirit to renew your mind and guide your steps.
As you do these things faithfully, you will be able to “understand what the will of the Lord is” (Ephesians 5:17).
Final Challenge
This week, choose one area where you need to know God’s will. Commit it to Him in prayer. Open His Word. Wait patiently. And watch how the God who loves you begins to lead you step by step.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, thank You that You have a good and perfect will for each of us. Forgive us for the times we have run ahead of You or leaned on our own understanding. Renew our minds by Your Word. Give us patience to wait on You and peace when we walk in Your ways. May we live as children of light, always seeking to please You. In the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.